tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post4149262196030724061..comments2024-01-19T03:54:02.341-05:00Comments on Marti Rulli, Author: Goodbye Natalie Goodbye Splendour (Natalie Wood): Never ForgetMarti Rullihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16585177424159444524noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-65900533270854653742010-09-13T17:26:10.367-04:002010-09-13T17:26:10.367-04:00I came to understand the apprehension Dennis felt ...I came to understand the apprehension Dennis felt about that weekend in GNGS.<br />His phone conversation with Natalie about supplies for that weekend, his trip to the market, etc., just trying to make the best of things.<br />Yes, strange how one person, a change of heart or mind or circumstances can make the difference between life and death.<br />Several years ago, I was made aware of a very nice man by a mutual match-making friend, and she had spoken of me to him as well.<br />Both of us were single and seemed to have a great deal in common, but for some reason, we were never able to get together.<br />Both of us had demanding jobs and family responsibilities that could not be ignored.<br />Finally, just as we were about to meet, he was called away by his job at the last minute.<br />A month later, late at night, he was stabbed to death in his own home by murderers that have never been caught.<br />If we had originally met months before and things had gone well, I could have been a victim as well.<br />Strange how life works sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-88879740676100231602010-09-11T19:53:03.162-04:002010-09-11T19:53:03.162-04:00For a few years before 9/11 I had been flying a lo...For a few years before 9/11 I had been flying a lot for the magazine job. I believed I had conquered my fear of flying. But, when the Hawaii trip was in motion, I was so glad for the opportunity to be aboard Splendour. The owner had said I could take all the pictures I wanted. I really wanted to examine the overall size, sound, and the back deck of the yacht. Yet, I had a real uneasy feeling about flying out of Newark. It was kind of a doomed feeling. I usually flew out of Philly but had departed from Newark before. I even said to Bob that I didn't want to make the trip, that I just didn't feel right about it. Maybe that's why I so easily put Josh off, but that felt good, too. I was so sick of people turning everything Dennis and I ever cooperated with into an ulterior motive. My only motive in this thing has been to help Natalie achieve justice she's deserves. As I explained before, even my "billions comment" was nothing more than a mockery of another producer claiming we'd make millions for talking about the fact Natalie never drove the dinghy alone. How foolish did she think we were? But, all of that is behind us now. <br />I often think about all the "ifs" too about Natalie's last trip. I'm sure if just one other person had gone along for the outing, Natalie would've returned alive and well. Dennis had sensed it was going to be a rough one. He hated every second more than the last as they moved away from home port. The end result, however, is something he never imagined possible.Marti Rullihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16585177424159444524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-42345955811380680532010-09-11T17:38:59.216-04:002010-09-11T17:38:59.216-04:00Anonymous at 5:28--
I have often wondered that, t...Anonymous at 5:28--<br /><br />I have often wondered that, too--WHY was Natalie so gung-ho on making that trip? As I understand, they almost never made trips with only one guest, and they cancelled trips for weather reasons that weren't as bad as the storm that Thanksgiving weekend.<br /><br />And if Wagner was so against going, why didn't he say, "No, we're not going"--it was obvious he expected it to be a miserable trip (for HIMSELF, that is). However, he made SURE it was a miserable trip for Natalie and the others from the minute they left. <br /><br />Why did they have to go that weekend? Why couldn't one more person have made it--I truly believe one more person being there would've meant Natalie came home alive. <br /><br />Christopher Walken was not worth the trouble he caused. He proved to be unworthy of Natalie's gracious friendship, which she paid for with her life. It is just rotten.Marianne9noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-89869277300620405172010-09-11T17:28:17.065-04:002010-09-11T17:28:17.065-04:00Yes, we are all grateful that you were spared that...Yes, we are all grateful that you were spared that day. I only wish everyone had been that lucky. Have you ever wondered about how things like that work? Many people were saved that day because at the last minute they did something different than they would usually do. Always with no concious thought of why they changed their behavior. I have often wondered why Natalie was so determined to go on that cruise. It seemed that no one but she wanted to be there. The weather was bad, it was a lousy time of year to cruise etc. It's just inexplicable to me. She could have entertained Walken comfortably at her house too. DO NOT mistake this comment for blaming Natalie for her own death. We all know where the blame lies on that. I am merely mystified that one person can suddenly change directions and be saved from a massive car crash, while another does the same and is unconciously steered towards their doom.<br />Heartbreaking.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-53213948697479239452010-09-11T16:53:32.973-04:002010-09-11T16:53:32.973-04:00I lived in New York for a year in the late 1990s, ...I lived in New York for a year in the late 1990s, and just one week before Sept. 11, 2001, I had been visiting friends back there. Throughout my entire trip, I felt VERY uneasy and out of sorts, and I didn't know why.<br /><br />I tried to enjoy my time with my friends for several days; then I flew home on Sept. 4th. As always, as the airport shuttle whisked me to JFK, I gazed behind me to stare at the tremendous skyline, going all the way up and down the island. <br /><br />My eyes were fixed on the Twin Towers for several seconds, just before I turned around in my seat. They were the last piece of the skyline that I saw.<br /><br />We flew out over Long Island and turned west. I was still feeling sad and on edge. I had been in one of the towers when I lived there. They had always seemed a bit intimidating to me, but on this trip, and now as I flew home, I just felt sad and uncomfortable.<br /><br />I will never forget that trip or that horrible day of Sept. 11th. I hope all of the innocent people are at peace and their families and friends are comforted by wonderful memories.<br /><br />Marti, thank God that you weren't one of those innocent people.Marianne9noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-74035029493070290852010-09-11T16:43:33.796-04:002010-09-11T16:43:33.796-04:00Marti, that was a beautiful and moving post. It wa...Marti, that was a beautiful and moving post. It was not too long. I believe, too, that you were saved in order to tell Natalie's story. I am so glad that you've been able to do just that.Marianne9noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3866262301035927730.post-43190341907421946572010-09-11T16:23:17.968-04:002010-09-11T16:23:17.968-04:00I will never forget 9-11 either. I lost a friend. ...I will never forget 9-11 either. I lost a friend. Thanks for posting this Marti. Although this doesn't relate to the investigation of Natalie's death, it's part of what you went through within your journey to bring us the truth. How ironic it would have been had you went down on a plane carrying you to the Splendour. It would have been your ultimate sacrifice for Natalie. We're glad you're here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com